Termed as one of the worst ordeals that a married couple can go through in the Infertility Secrets health journal, fertility malfunctions can take a toll on partners that are in a relationship and longing to raise a family of their own. This is of course contributed by the frustration that surmounts after months and probably even years of trying to conceive a child without any success. The sad part however is that if left to aggravate, the emotional heartache of infertility can cause a lot of damage to your marriage, yourself esteem and ultimately your quality of life.
If you are going through this kind of unpleasant experience with you partner, it can be difficult to cope with the challenging aspects of this situation without get some help. This is what Infertility Secrets has been designed to do. Along with the detailed information regarding the causes, remedies and many other issues associated with infertility, this book goes as far as addressing the emotional aspect that people go through when facing fertility problems. This is a matter that should indeed not be taken lightly as it helps a couple to learn how to live with each other instead of allowing infertility to destroy a relationship that was built on love.
The first aspect that this book touches on and in what I consider to be the most crucial step towards the healing process, is simply coming to terms with what has happened and accepting it. This is what leads to the useful advice give by the author of avoiding blaming each other and oneself. It is important to avoid pointing fingers as this also allows the both of you to focus on how best to solve the problem. Jerking at one another as is put by the author only leads to unnecessary tension which unfortunately can be very devastation to a relationship.
One of the useful pieces of advice that you will find very use if you are going through the challenges of infertility is the call to communicate candidly and being realistic of each others expectations. Judging from the fact that both partners have a tough time while going through challenges connected with reproductive health, communication is indeed one of the most important tools that will probably make or break the relationship. One couldn’t agree more about on the fact that tolerance, empathy and affection towards each other are the important attributes that need to be practiced in order to bring a couple struggling with fertility challenges together and in a position to jointly address the problem.
In addition, not allowing insensitive utterances from others regarding your difficult ordeal to conceive get to you is also one of the most valuable pieces of advice that I find wise in this book. This is because of the simple reason that giving in to the negative things that other people have to say can indeed put you down. It is therefore important to keep your cool when around other people and this also helps you to gradually become more and more appreciative of what you have. Just as the author in the book says that not having a child can be downright unfulfilling for anyone longing to have one, by avoiding to point fingers, not lashing out at each other, communicating openly and not being self obsessed can and will allow any couple facing infertility to focus on what blessings they have while looking at life from a different perspective.
Generally, Infertility Secrets is one of the must have books if you are looking to find effective ways to overcome infertility.